During the course of the show, George Costanza (Jason Alexander) breaks up with his girlfriend Marlene (Tracy Kolis).Later, he remembers that he left some books in her apartment and persuades his friend Jerry (Jerry Seinfeld), the show's protagonist, to retrieve them.There are a few different things that happened during the time I was newly separated that caused me to classify myself as temporarily psychotic, one of those being when I figured out "my ex is dating my friend! Here was a woman who I thought was my good girlfriend. We had gotten together a few times and I had told her things -- personal things about my ex and our relationship, why I was getting divorced, etc. The relationship lasted for about 6 months (I think) and years later, I've come to realize how silly and stupid I was for having the reaction I did. Grit your teeth, accept it, act classy and show grace to the outside world. She is also the author of her new divorce novel with the same name, as well as her other divorce novel, FREE GIFT WITH PURCHASE. Pilossoph is a weekly business features reporter and columnist for Sun-Times Media. I hated them and everyone else who I thought could possibly know about their relationship. I thought about them giggling and laughing and kissing and being blissfully happy. The fact that this girl did this to you is probably making you feel insecure about girl friendships. They will assure you that they are your best friends and that you are loved. A good friend used to say to me, "You're on your own road. " Lastly, if you are on the other end of this, meaning if you are the one who starts dating your friend's ex, PLEASE handle it this way. Jackie Pilossoph is the author of the blog, Divorced Girl Smiling. Right now, it probably is a shock to you that she is dating. That accounts for a lot of the feelings that are coursing throughout your system right now. Digest the information that she is seeing someone else and then... You don't have to like it, just become OKAY with it.2) Do what she is doing and REBOUND.Not only that, you also probably had some pretty high hopes about being able to find a way to get her back, and this situation makes it seem like that will not happen. You know, truthfully all she is probably doing right now is the classic rebound relationship. You are just going to feel worse if it seems like she is out having fun and you are sitting at home listening to yet another sad love song on the radio. do whatever you can to keep you from just sitting in the house and thinking about how much it sucks that she is with someone else.3) Be supportive, but not a fan boy of her new relationship.
What I've noticed, though, is that every person I've heard espouse this worldview was straight.This rule is almost never stated or enforced among queer communities.If you're gay, you will almost inevitably date a friend's ex at some point.Directed by Tom Cherones, "The Ex-Girlfriend" was the first episode of the show filmed at CBS Studio Center in Los Angeles, California (and would stay there for the remainder of the show's run), the previous season having been filmed at Desilu Cahuenga in Hollywood.The episode featured one new set, a chiropractor's office; the remaining sets had been used on the show earlier.Lots of people have told me unequivocally that they would never date a friend's ex.