My boyfriends on dating sites

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The primary reason to keep an online dating profile active is simple: TO MEET NEW WOMEN. None of these appears condusive to long term happiness--or is it just me? He may not flirt but likes the idea that women are looking at him. He doesn’t understand that he’s in a committed relationship.5.

He’s looking to meet or talk to women for some other reason… First, consider that perhaps he’s not as committed to your relationship as he says or you thought.

I am asking because I don’t know if this agreement is assumed on your part or if he explicitly said, “Yes, you and I are exclusive…” or, better yet, “I want to be exclusive with you.” I’ll explain why I bring that up in a moment, but at any rate I agree with you that checking his dating profile seems out of step with having an exclusive relationship with you…

I also wouldn’t even classify this as snooping, per se. You didn’t somehow break into and read his emails or texts.

If you are on a personal connection, like at home, you can run an anti-virus scan on your device to make sure it is not infected with malware.

If you are at an office or shared network, you can ask the network administrator to run a scan across the network looking for misconfigured or infected devices.

I wrote this article about a husband using dating sites before the Ashley Madison outing that recently happened.

I was personally thrilled by the ultimatum given to the company, because offering illicit escapades to a married person having marriage trouble is like offering wine to an alcoholic.

Of course he went off and said I had no right to be snooping. I know I should have not done it, but I looked in it really not expecting anything. I saw that he had registered on on a night that we had an argument. I looked him up on that site and it said once again that he was looking for "something casual, with no strings attached."Fool me once, shame on you. While I was livid I registered on the website with a fake profile that I knew would interest him, since I know what he likes.

The explanations for this are pretty lame but these men always make the argument that there’s some good reason to keep their profile active.

If it's not a passive-aggressive way of telling me we have broken up, what is it?

I know I am being sneaky/snoopy by checking up on him to see how often her goes on the site (and he goes on often! It’s not like I’d call this guy my boyfriend already, I know it’s still early… Author’s note: I have expanded the content of this article since it’s original post (as I do from time to time).

This is thanks, in part, to your excellent comments and questions from the audience.

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