Many relationships breakup at the three-month point, as some people only like the beginning stages of a relationship and don’t want to get serious. He might have told you what you wanted to hear, but he didn’t come out and ask you first to be in a committed relationship, although he said he wasn’t seeing anyone else. You also don’t know if this morning when he said he loved how he felt with you, that he had swiped for the last time and was ready to delete his Tinder account, right? There’s a saying, “Seek and ye shall find.” Why did you create a fake Tinder profile to try to catch him? You felt insecure about your relationship status early on and didn’t trust him.From where he sat, he probably enjoyed dating you and hadn’t moved to a more serious stage yet. You were happy enough with him to want your relationship to be exclusive. Chances are he wanted to see where the relationship was going to go and got caught up in the game. If you’re sleeping together, he also might not want to give that up. Probably because you weren’t sure he wanted to be exclusive with you. You wanted to catch him and behind HIS back, logged on as a fake person to see if he’d take the bait. No guy wants to feel like his girlfriend is checking up on him, even if it’s innocent.Would you like to read what other clients say about us first?Read testimonials on our Relationship Coaching/Advice site.Rather than seeing where your relationship would go over time, you tried to catch him, and you did. Having an active profile on Tinder when you’re in a relationship tells the world that you’re single and looking.found that that 42 percent of Tinder’s members are already in relationships. Almost half of the users are playing around on Tinder. From your boyfriend’s perspective, he thought he was single and was keeping his options open.When I did he looked me in the eye and said he would never, ever do that to me. And if you don’t tell him, you set him up to lie even further. Because when it comes right down to it, he’s the one who breached the trust of the relationship. Sure, it’s clear he loves you, but that doesn’t mean he’s a great boyfriend, and someone to throw your lot in with. He should be apologizing to you, asking for forgiveness, and agreeing to go to couples’ counseling, or whatever else it takes to restore the trust. Any guy trolling a dating site while he’s in a relationship is cheating, plain and simple. ” To which we’d respond, “But only because the opportunity didn’t present itself.” Kacey, ask yourself if this is the kind of person you want to build a life with? Please leave us a follow up comment and/or question here in the comments section.
I couldn’t take it any longer; I didn’t understand why he was looking for somebody else, when everything seemed fine.I am asking because I don’t know if this agreement is assumed on your part or if he explicitly said, “Yes, you and I are exclusive…” or, better yet, “I want to be exclusive with you.” I’ll explain why I bring that up in a moment, but at any rate I agree with you that checking his dating profile seems out of step with having an exclusive relationship with you…I also wouldn’t even classify this as snooping, per se. You didn’t somehow break into and read his emails or texts.It’s reasonable to interpret that as meaning you’ve agreed to not date anyone or sleep with anyone else, but I want to ask: when you agreed to be exclusive, how did this come about?How clear was his side of the agreement to being committed? It’s the honeymoon stage, where everything is fresh and exciting.